Humility
Also known as: Meekness, Lowliness, Anavah, Shiflut, Tapeinophrosunē, Prautēs, Tawadu
Humility: The Path to Exaltation
Humility is the virtue of recognizing one’s true position before God and others—neither inflating one’s importance nor degrading one’s worth, but accepting with grace the reality of creaturehood, dependence, and limitation. In the Abrahamic faiths, humility is not weakness or self-loathing but truthfulness about who we are in relation to God. It is the opposite of pride, which Scripture identifies as the root of all sin.
The Hebrew word anavah (עֲנָוָה) means humility, lowliness, or meekness. It describes someone who does not grasp for honor or dominance but trusts God and serves others. Moses is described as “very humble, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth” (Numbers 12:3)—yet he was also a powerful leader who confronted Pharaoh and led a nation.
In Christianity, humility finds its supreme example in Jesus Christ, who “made himself nothing… and humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross” (Philippians 2:7-8). The One who was God did not cling to divine privilege but took the form of a servant. Jesus taught, “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth” (Matthew 5:5) and called His followers to “learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart” (Matthew 11:29).
In Islam, humility (tawadu’, تواضع) is essential to submission (islam). Pride (kibr, كِبْر) is condemned as satanic—it was Satan’s pride that led to his refusal to bow before Adam and his subsequent fall. Muslims are called to walk humbly, speak gently, and recognize their absolute dependence on Allah. The Prophet Muhammad is described as the most humble of people despite being the final messenger of Allah.
Across the three traditions, humility is not optional niceness but foundational virtue. God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5). Pride leads to destruction; humility leads to exaltation. The paradox of the kingdom is clear: those who humble themselves will be exalted, and those who exalt themselves will be humbled (Luke 14:11).
Biblical Foundations
Pride: The Original Sin
Humility cannot be understood apart from its opposite—pride. In Christian theology, pride is often identified as the original sin. Satan fell through pride, desiring to exalt himself above God: “I will ascend to the heavens; I will raise my throne above the stars of God… I will make myself like the Most High” (Isaiah 14:13-14).
The serpent tempted Eve with the same sin: “You will be like God” (Genesis 3:5). The desire to be autonomous, self-sufficient, equal to or greater than God—this is the essence of pride and the root of the Fall.
Pride is the refusal to accept one’s creaturely status, the grasping for glory that belongs to God alone. Humility is the antidote—the acceptance that we are creatures, not Creator; servants, not sovereign.
Moses: The Most Humble Man
Scripture gives Moses an extraordinary commendation: “Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth” (Numbers 12:3).
This is remarkable because Moses was a powerful leader—he confronted Pharaoh, led the Exodus, received the Law, judged Israel, and spoke with God face to face. Yet he was humble. Humility is not incompatible with leadership or authority; it is the proper attitude within them.
When God called Moses, he protested his inadequacy (Exodus 3:11; 4:10). When Korah rebelled, claiming Moses had exalted himself, Moses fell facedown before God (Numbers 16:4). When God offered to destroy Israel and start over with Moses, Moses interceded for the people rather than seizing the opportunity for personal glory (Exodus 32:10-14).
Moses’ humility was not self-deprecation but proper estimation of himself before God. He knew his strengths and weaknesses, his calling and limits. He neither inflated his importance nor denied his gifts.
Humility in the Wisdom Literature
The Wisdom books repeatedly commend humility:
Proverbs 11:2: “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.”
Proverbs 18:12: “Before a downfall the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.”
Proverbs 22:4: “Humility is the fear of the LORD; its wages are riches and honor and life.”
Humility is linked to wisdom, honor, and the fear of the LORD. Pride leads to disgrace and downfall. The pattern is consistent: humble yourself, and God will exalt you; exalt yourself, and God will humble you.
Micah’s Summary
Micah 6:8 provides one of the Bible’s most comprehensive summaries of what God requires:
“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
Justice, mercy, and humility—these three encompass true religion. Without humility, justice becomes self-righteous and mercy becomes condescending. Humility is the posture that enables us to walk with God.
Humility in Judaism
Anavah: The Crown of Virtues
In Jewish thought, humility (anavah, עֲנָוָה) is often considered the greatest of virtues. The Talmud teaches that humility is the vessel that holds all other virtues. Without it, other virtues become corrupted by pride.
Rabbi Levitas said, “Be exceedingly humble, for the hope of mortals is the worm” (Pirkei Avot 4:4). This sounds morbid, but it is realistic—we are dust and to dust we return (Genesis 3:19). Humility is truthfulness about our mortality and creaturehood.
Yet humility is not self-hatred. Judaism also teaches human dignity—we are created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27). Humility balances these truths: we are both dust and image-bearers, both mortal and infinitely precious.
Maimonides on the Middle Way
The medieval philosopher Maimonides taught that most virtues lie in the mean between extremes (following Aristotle). For example, courage is the mean between cowardice and recklessness.
Humility, however, is different. Maimonides argued that one should avoid pride entirely, even its “mean.” Instead, one should incline toward extreme humility. The danger of pride is so great that one must err on the side of lowliness.
However, Maimonides also warned against false humility or servility. True humility does not grovel or deny one’s God-given abilities. It simply refuses to claim credit for them.
Humility Before God and Others
Jewish teaching distinguishes but connects humility before God and humility before others.
Before God: Recognizing that everything we have is a gift. Our talents, opportunities, successes—all come from God. “What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Corinthians 4:7). Humility before God is gratitude and dependence.
Before others: Treating others with respect and dignity, not lording it over them or despising them. Rabbi Hillel taught, “Do not separate yourself from the community” and “Do not judge your fellow until you have reached his place” (Pirkei Avot 2:4-5).
Humility and Learning
Jewish tradition connects humility with learning. The Talmud says, “Whoever humbles himself, the Holy One, blessed be He, exalts him” (Eruvin 13b).
Pride closes the mind—the proud think they already know. Humility opens the mind—the humble recognize how much they don’t know and remain teachable. A vessel must be empty to be filled. The proud are full of themselves; the humble have room to receive wisdom.
Humility in Christianity
Jesus: The Pattern of Humility
Jesus Christ is Christianity’s supreme example of humility. Though He was God, He did not exploit His divine status but emptied Himself:
Philippians 2:5-8: “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!”
Jesus humbled Himself in two stages:
- Incarnation: God became human, taking the form of a servant
- Crucifixion: He died the most shameful death, a criminal’s execution
This is the ultimate condescension—infinite majesty stooping to finite humanity, divine glory clothed in human weakness, the Creator submitting to the creature’s death.
Jesus’ Teaching on Humility
Throughout His ministry, Jesus exalted humility and condemned pride:
Matthew 5:5: “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.”
Meekness (prautēs, πραΰτης) is not weakness but strength under control, power exercised gently. The meek do not grasp or dominate but trust God and serve others.
Matthew 11:29: “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
Jesus invites weary people to learn humility from Him. His yoke is easy and His burden light precisely because He is humble.
Matthew 18:1-4: When the disciples asked who is greatest in the kingdom, Jesus set a child before them: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.”
Children are dependent, trusting, and lowly in status. Kingdom greatness is measured by humility, not by worldly standards of power and prestige.
Matthew 23:12: “For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
This is God’s law of reversal—the first will be last, the last first; the greatest will be servant of all; the humble will be exalted.
The Washing of Feet
John 13 records Jesus washing His disciples’ feet—a task reserved for the lowliest servant. Peter protested, but Jesus insisted: “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me” (John 13:8).
After washing their feet, Jesus explained: “Do you understand what I have done for you? You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:12-15).
If the Lord and Teacher serves, how much more should His disciples serve one another?
Mary: The Handmaid of the Lord
Mary, the mother of Jesus, exemplifies humility. When the angel announced that she would bear the Messiah, she responded, “I am the Lord’s servant… May your word to me be fulfilled” (Luke 1:38).
In her Magnificat, Mary celebrates God’s reversals: “He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble. He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty” (Luke 1:52-53).
Mary recognized her “humble state” (Luke 1:48), yet she didn’t despise it. She embraced her role with joy and trust.
Paul’s Teaching
Paul repeatedly emphasizes humility:
Philippians 2:3: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
Humility puts others first, considering their needs and interests above one’s own.
Ephesians 4:2: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
Humility, gentleness, and patience go together. Pride is impatient and harsh; humility is longsuffering and kind.
Paul also modeled humility. Despite being a brilliant scholar and apostle, he called himself “the least of the apostles” (1 Corinthians 15:9) and “the worst of sinners” (1 Timothy 1:15). This was not false modesty but genuine awareness of his unworthiness apart from grace.
God Opposes the Proud
Scripture repeatedly declares that God opposes pride and exalts humility:
James 4:6: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”
1 Peter 5:5-6: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble. Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.”
God actively resists the proud. Pride puts us in opposition to God. Humility aligns us with Him and opens the floodgates of His grace.
Humility in Islam
Tawadu: Humility Before Allah
In Islam, humility (tawadu’, تواضع) is essential to submission (islam). To be Muslim is to submit to Allah, and submission requires humility—recognition of one’s absolute dependence on the Creator.
The Quran contrasts the humble servant with the arrogant rebel. The humble walk gently on the earth and speak words of peace (Quran 25:63). The arrogant strut proudly, as if they could tear the earth apart or reach the mountains in height (Quran 17:37).
Quran 31:18-19: “Do not turn your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful. Be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys.”
Humility is demonstrated in posture (moderate pace), speech (lowered voice), and attitude (not contemptuous or boastful).
Pride: The Sin of Iblis
Islamic tradition teaches that pride (kibr, كِبْر) was Satan’s (Iblis’) sin. When Allah commanded the angels to bow before Adam, Iblis refused: “I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay” (Quran 7:12; 38:76).
Iblis’ pride led to his fall and eternal damnation. He considered himself superior based on his nature (fire vs. clay) and refused to humble himself before Allah’s command.
Pride, in Islam, is rebellion against Allah. It is claiming superiority, refusing submission, and elevating oneself above others or even above divine command.
The Prophet Muhammad’s Humility
Despite being the final prophet and messenger of Allah, Muhammad is portrayed in Islamic tradition as profoundly humble.
Simple living: Muhammad lived simply, mending his own clothes, helping with household chores, and sitting on the ground with companions.
Service: He served others, even washing his own dishes and tending to camels.
Accessibility: He was approachable, not aloof. He sat among the poor and ate with slaves.
Self-description: When asked to describe himself, Muhammad reportedly said, “I am the son of a woman who ate dried meat” (emphasizing his ordinary origins).
A hadith states: “Humility does not diminish a person; rather, Allah elevates him. So be humble and Allah will elevate you” (Sahih Muslim).
The Posture of Prayer
Islamic prayer (salat, صلاة) physically embodies humility. Muslims prostrate themselves (sujud, سجود), placing their foreheads on the ground—the lowest part of the body touching the earth in submission to Allah.
This posture is the epitome of humility. The proud refuse to bow; the humble gladly prostrate. In Islam, the highest spiritual state is achieved in the lowest physical position.
Warning Against Pride
Numerous hadiths warn against pride:
- “No one who has an atom’s weight of pride in his heart will enter Paradise” (Sahih Muslim)
- “Pride is refusing the truth and looking down on people” (Sahih Muslim)
Pride is not merely a vice among others; it is the sin that prevents entry to Paradise. It is incompatible with true faith.
Comparative Themes
Humility as Recognition of Creaturely Status
All three traditions ground humility in the Creator-creature distinction. We are not God; we are created, dependent, finite, mortal. Humility is acknowledging this reality.
Judaism: “What is man that you are mindful of him?” (Psalm 8:4). We are dust, yet crowned with glory by God’s grace.
Christianity: “For dust you are and to dust you will return” (Genesis 3:19). Yet God became human to redeem us.
Islam: “Does man think that he will be left neglected? Were you not a drop of sperm emitted?” (Quran 75:36-37). We came from nothing; we depend entirely on Allah.
Pride as the Root Sin
All three traditions identify pride as the fundamental sin from which others flow.
Judaism: Pride is rebellion against God, claiming autonomy, exalting self above the Creator.
Christianity: Pride was Satan’s sin and the sin that led to the Fall. It is the opposite of faith (which trusts God) and love (which serves others).
Islam: Pride (kibr) is satanic, the refusal to submit to Allah. It is the barrier to Paradise.
God Exalts the Humble
All three traditions affirm that God opposes the proud but exalts the humble.
Judaism: “The LORD sustains the humble but casts the wicked to the ground” (Psalm 147:6).
Christianity: “Those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted” (Matthew 23:12).
Islam: “Allah will elevate those who believe among you and those who were given knowledge, by degrees” (Quran 58:11)—knowledge rightly received produces humility, and humble believers are exalted.
Humility and Service
All three traditions link humility with service. The humble do not lord it over others but serve them.
Judaism: Leaders are called to be servants of the people. Moses was humble yet led with authority.
Christianity: “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant” (Mark 10:43). Jesus washed feet and died for others.
Islam: Muhammad served his household and community. True greatness is in service, not domination.
Modern Challenges and Questions
Humility vs. Self-Esteem
Modern psychology emphasizes self-esteem and positive self-image. Does humility conflict with healthy self-regard?
Believers respond: Humility is not low self-esteem. It is accurate self-assessment. The humble neither inflate their importance nor deny their worth. They recognize they are created in God’s image, loved by God, and given gifts—but they don’t claim credit for what they’ve received.
C.S. Lewis wrote: “Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.” The humble are not preoccupied with self (whether inflating or degrading) but focused on God and others.
Humility and Assertiveness
Can one be humble and still advocate for oneself, set boundaries, or pursue ambitions?
Yes. Humility is not passivity or doormat behavior. Moses was humble yet confronted Pharaoh. Jesus was humble yet cleansed the temple. Humility can coexist with strength, courage, and appropriate self-advocacy.
What humility precludes is arrogance, contempt for others, and self-promotion at others’ expense.
False Humility
How do we distinguish true humility from false humility (e.g., fishing for compliments, self-deprecation to manipulate others, refusal to use God-given abilities)?
True humility is honest about both strengths and weaknesses. It doesn’t deny gifts but doesn’t boast in them either. It gives credit to God and serves others.
False humility is pride in disguise—drawing attention to one’s supposed lowliness to appear holy or to manipulate.
Cultural Differences
Some cultures emphasize humility, modesty, and self-effacement (e.g., many Eastern cultures). Others emphasize self-promotion, confidence, and assertiveness (e.g., many Western cultures, especially American).
How should believers navigate these cultural differences while maintaining biblical humility?
Humility must be adapted to context without compromising its essence. In some cultures, this means resisting excessive self-promotion. In others, it means resisting servile self-abasement.
Significance
Humility is not peripheral but foundational to the spiritual life. It is the soil in which all other virtues grow.
Humility Is Truthfulness
Humility is seeing reality as it is—God as God, self as self, others as image-bearers. Pride distorts reality, inflating self and diminishing God and others. Humility restores proper perspective.
Humility Opens Us to God’s Grace
Pride closes us to grace—we don’t think we need it. Humility opens us—we recognize our desperate need. “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble” (James 4:6).
The Pharisee’s prayer was rejected; the tax collector’s was accepted. The difference? “God, have mercy on me, a sinner” (Luke 18:13). Humility receives grace; pride blocks it.
Humility Enables Relationships
Pride builds walls; humility builds bridges. The proud demand their way, refuse to apologize, and look down on others. The humble listen, admit fault, and honor others.
Paul’s command, “In humility value others above yourselves” (Philippians 2:3), is the foundation of healthy relationships.
Humility Imitates God
In Christianity especially, humility imitates God Himself. The incarnation and crucifixion are divine humility—God stooping to save us. When we humble ourselves, we become like Christ.
Humility Is the Path to Exaltation
The paradox: humility leads to exaltation. “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up” (James 4:10).
This is not a technique (humble yourself to get promoted!). It is a principle of God’s kingdom. He exalts the humble in His time and way.
Conclusion
Humility is the virtue of recognizing one’s true position before God and others. It is not weakness or self-hatred but truthfulness and grace.
In Judaism, humility (anavah) is the crown of virtues, exemplified by Moses and commended by the sages. The humble fear the LORD, walk with God, and receive wisdom and honor.
In Christianity, humility finds its supreme example in Jesus Christ, who humbled Himself to the point of death on a cross. Christians are called to have the same mindset, valuing others above themselves and serving rather than being served.
In Islam, humility (tawadu’) is essential to submission. Pride is satanic; humility is faith. Muslims humble themselves before Allah in prayer and in life, walking gently and speaking peace.
All three traditions agree: Pride is the root sin; humility is the foundational virtue. God opposes the proud and exalts the humble.
The call is clear: “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up” (James 4:10).
Will we heed it?
Or will we, like Satan, refuse to bow, insisting on our own way, our own glory, our own throne?
The choice is ours. But the pattern is set. The humble will be exalted. The proud will be brought low.
“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God” (Micah 6:8).
Walk humbly. It is the path to life.