Practice

Gratitude

Also known as: Thanksgiving, Thankfulness, Hodayah, Berachah, Eucharistia, Charis, Shukr

Gratitude: The Heart of Worship

Gratitude is the thankful recognition of blessing, the joyful acknowledgment that all good things come from God. It is not merely polite appreciation but a fundamental spiritual posture—the opposite of entitlement, pride, and grumbling. In the Abrahamic faiths, gratitude is both command and invitation: we are commanded to give thanks because God is good, and we are invited to discover the joy that flows from a thankful heart.

The Hebrew word hodayah (הוֹדָיָה) means thanksgiving or confession of praise. The Psalms overflow with calls to “give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever” (Psalm 107:1). Jewish tradition developed an elaborate system of blessings (berachot, ברכות) to sanctify every moment of life with thanksgiving—before eating, upon waking, when seeing a rainbow, upon hearing good news or bad.

In Christianity, the word “Eucharist” (the Lord’s Supper) comes from the Greek eucharistia (εὐχαριστία), meaning “thanksgiving.” Jesus gave thanks before breaking bread. Paul commands believers to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Gratitude is not reserved for when things go well but is to be practiced always, for God’s goodness is constant even when circumstances are difficult.

In Islam, gratitude (shukr, شكر) is essential to faith. The Quran promises, “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you” (Quran 14:7). Ingratitude (kufr, كفر)—the same word used for unbelief—is rebellion against God. To deny or ignore God’s blessings is to reject God Himself. The grateful Muslim recognizes that every breath, every heartbeat, every blessing is a gift from Allah.

Across the three traditions, gratitude is not optional but foundational. It shapes how we see God (as generous and good), how we see ourselves (as recipients of undeserved grace), and how we see life (as gift, not entitlement). Gratitude transforms grumbling into praise, anxiety into peace, and scarcity into abundance.

Biblical Foundations

The Psalms: A School of Thanksgiving

The Psalms are saturated with gratitude. Entire psalms are dedicated to thanksgiving (Psalms 100, 107, 118, 136), and virtually every psalm contains some expression of praise or thanks.

Psalm 100:4: “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”

Thanksgiving is the proper way to approach God. We come not demanding or complaining but acknowledging His goodness.

Psalm 107:1: “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.”

This refrain appears repeatedly in the Psalms (107:1; 118:1, 29; 136:1; cf. 1 Chronicles 16:34). God’s goodness and unfailing love are the foundation of gratitude. We thank Him not because of circumstances but because of who He is.

Psalm 136 is the “Great Hallel,” recited during Passover. Each of its 26 verses ends with “His love endures forever.” The psalm recounts God’s creation, His rescue of Israel from Egypt, His provision in the wilderness, His gift of the land—all punctuated by the refrain of thanksgiving.

Ingratitude as Sin

Scripture identifies ingratitude as a serious sin, the mark of a heart turned away from God.

Romans 1:21: “For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.”

Ingratitude is linked to idolatry. Those who do not thank the Creator turn to worship creatures. Thanklessness is the beginning of a downward spiral into deeper sin.

Thanksgiving Despite Circumstances

Biblical gratitude is not conditional on favorable circumstances. Believers are called to give thanks even in hardship.

Habakkuk 3:17-18: “Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior.”

When everything is stripped away, gratitude remains—not for circumstances but for God Himself.

Job 1:21: After losing his children, his wealth, and his health, Job said, “The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised.”

This is not stoic resignation but profound trust. Job blessed the Lord even in devastating loss.

Gratitude in Judaism

Modeh Ani: The First Words of the Day

Traditional Jewish practice begins each day with the prayer Modeh Ani:

“I give thanks before You, living and eternal King, for You have mercifully restored my soul within me; Your faithfulness is great.”

Before getting out of bed, before any other words, the faithful Jew thanks God for the gift of a new day, for breath, for life itself. Gratitude frames the entire day.

Berachot: Sanctifying Life with Blessings

Judaism developed a comprehensive system of blessings (berachot, ברכות) to sanctify every aspect of life. The Talmud teaches that one should recite at least 100 blessings every day.

Blessings for food:

  • Before eating bread: “Blessed are You, LORD our God, King of the universe, who brings forth bread from the earth.”
  • Before drinking wine: “Blessed are You, LORD our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine.”
  • After meals: The Birkat Hamazon (Grace After Meals) thanks God for food, for the land, for Jerusalem, and for His goodness.

Blessings for experiences:

  • Upon seeing lightning or hearing thunder: “Blessed are You… whose power and might fill the world.”
  • Upon seeing a rainbow: “Blessed are You… who remembers the covenant.”
  • Upon hearing good news: “Blessed are You… who is good and does good.”
  • Upon hearing bad news: “Blessed are You… the true Judge.”

Even in sorrow, the faithful Jew blesses God, trusting His justice and goodness.

Blessings for everyday activities:

  • Upon waking and washing: “Blessed are You… who has sanctified us with His commandments and commanded us concerning the washing of hands.”
  • Upon getting dressed: “Blessed are You… who clothes the naked.”

The goal is to live in constant awareness of God’s presence and provision, thanking Him for everything.

Thanksgiving in Worship

The Hebrew word todah (תּוֹדָה), often translated “thanksgiving,” also refers to a type of sacrifice. The todah offering (Leviticus 7:12-15) was a peace offering brought in gratitude for God’s deliverance or blessing.

Psalm 50:23 declares, “Those who sacrifice thank offerings honor me.”

Thanksgiving is not merely words but an act of worship, a sacrifice that honors God.

The Hallel: Psalms of Praise

During major festivals (Passover, Shavuot, Sukkot, Hanukkah), Jews recite the Hallel—Psalms 113-118—psalms of praise and thanksgiving. These celebrate God’s deliverance, provision, and faithfulness.

The Passover Seder is permeated with thanksgiving—recounting the Exodus, singing praises, blessing God for redemption.

Gratitude in Christianity

Jesus’ Example

Jesus modeled gratitude throughout His ministry:

Luke 22:17, 19: At the Last Supper, Jesus “took the cup, gave thanks… took bread, gave thanks and broke it.”

Even on the night He was betrayed, facing the cross, Jesus gave thanks.

John 11:41: Before raising Lazarus, Jesus prayed, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me.”

Matthew 11:25: “I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children.”

Jesus’ prayers were marked by thanksgiving and praise.

The Eucharist: Thanksgiving at the Center

The Lord’s Supper is called the Eucharist, from the Greek eucharistia (thanksgiving), because Jesus gave thanks before breaking the bread. The central act of Christian worship is an act of thanksgiving for Christ’s sacrifice.

Every time believers gather for Communion, they remember with gratitude: “This is my body, given for you… This is my blood, shed for you.” The Eucharist is both memorial and thanksgiving—recalling God’s salvation and expressing gratitude for it.

Paul’s Theology of Gratitude

The Apostle Paul repeatedly emphasizes thanksgiving:

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

Gratitude is not situational but constant. Paul does not say “for all circumstances” (as if everything is good) but “in all circumstances” (God is good in every situation).

Ephesians 5:20: “Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 4:6: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

Anxiety is answered not just with prayer but with thanksgiving. Gratitude shifts focus from what we lack to what God has given, from fear to trust.

Colossians 3:15-17: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts… And be thankful… And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”

Gratitude should permeate all of life—every word, every action done with thanksgiving.

The Ten Lepers

Luke 17:11-19 recounts Jesus healing ten lepers. All ten were healed, but only one—a Samaritan—returned to thank Jesus.

Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?” (Luke 17:17-18).

The story highlights the tragedy of ingratitude. Nine received healing but did not return to give thanks. Only the grateful Samaritan received Jesus’ commendation: “Your faith has made you well.”

Gratitude and faith are connected. The thankful heart recognizes God’s hand and responds with worship.

Gratitude Despite Suffering

Paul and Silas, beaten and imprisoned, sang hymns and praised God at midnight (Acts 16:25). Their gratitude was not for their circumstances but for God’s faithfulness in all circumstances.

Paul wrote many of his most joyful and thankful letters from prison (Philippians, Ephesians, Colossians, Philemon). Chains did not silence his praise.

2 Corinthians 9:15: “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!”

No matter what else Paul lacked, he overflowed with gratitude for Christ.

Gratitude in Islam

Shukr: Essential to Faith

In Islam, gratitude (shukr, شكر) is a fundamental aspect of worship and submission to Allah. The Quran commands gratitude and promises blessing for the grateful.

Quran 2:152: “Remember Me; I will remember you. Be grateful to Me and do not reject Me.”

Gratitude to Allah is directly linked to remembering Him. The grateful heart is the remembering heart.

Quran 14:7: “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.”

Allah promises to increase His blessings to the grateful. Gratitude opens the door to more blessing.

Ingratitude as Kufr

The word kufr (كفر) means both “disbelief” and “ingratitude.” To be ungrateful is to deny Allah’s blessings and, ultimately, to deny Allah Himself.

Quran 76:3: “Indeed, We guided him to the way, be he grateful or be he ungrateful.”

Humanity is given guidance. The response is either gratitude (accepting the gift) or ingratitude (rejecting it).

Quran 31:12: “Whoever is grateful is grateful for [the benefit of] himself. And whoever denies [His favor]—then indeed, Allah is Free of need and Praiseworthy.”

Gratitude benefits the one who is grateful. Allah does not need our thanks; we need to give thanks to Him. It shapes our hearts and draws us near to Him.

Alhamdulillah: Praise Be to Allah

The most common expression of gratitude in Islam is Alhamdulillah (الحمد لله), “All praise is due to Allah.”

The Quran opens with Al-Fatiha, the first surah, which begins, “Alhamdulillahi Rabbil ‘Alamin” (All praise is due to Allah, Lord of all the worlds).

Muslims are taught to say Alhamdulillah:

  • Upon waking
  • After eating
  • When receiving good news
  • When completing a task
  • When avoiding danger
  • In all circumstances, recognizing Allah’s mercy

Even in difficulty, the faithful Muslim says Alhamdulillah, trusting that Allah’s wisdom and mercy are at work even when circumstances are hard.

The Prophet Muhammad’s Gratitude

Despite hardship, persecution, and personal loss, the Prophet Muhammad exemplified gratitude.

A hadith recounts that Muhammad stood in prayer so long that his feet swelled. When asked why he prayed so much when Allah had forgiven all his sins, he replied, “Should I not be a grateful servant?” (Sahih Bukhari).

Even assured of Paradise, Muhammad expressed gratitude through worship. Gratitude is not merely for receiving blessings but is the proper response to who Allah is.

Gratitude for Trials

Islamic teaching encourages gratitude even for trials, trusting that Allah’s wisdom is perfect.

A hadith states: “How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for his affairs are all good, and this applies to no one but the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful for it and that is good for him. If something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience and that is good for him” (Sahih Muslim).

The believer thanks Allah in prosperity and trusts Him in adversity. Both responses are forms of worship.

Comparative Themes

Gratitude as Recognition of God’s Goodness

All three traditions ground gratitude in God’s character. We thank Him not primarily for what He gives but for who He is—good, generous, merciful, faithful.

Judaism: “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever” (Psalm 107:1).

Christianity: “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!” (2 Corinthians 9:15).

Islam: “Allah is Free of need and Praiseworthy” (Quran 31:12). We thank Him because He is inherently worthy of thanks.

Gratitude as Constant Practice

All three traditions call for regular, habitual thanksgiving—not occasional gratitude when convenient but continual acknowledgment of God’s goodness.

Judaism: 100 daily blessings, Modeh Ani upon waking, Grace After Meals.

Christianity: “Give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). “Always giving thanks” (Ephesians 5:20).

Islam: Alhamdulillah throughout the day, five daily prayers that begin with praise to Allah.

Gratitude is not a mood but a discipline—a habit cultivated through practice.

Ingratitude as Serious Sin

All three traditions view ingratitude as sin, the mark of a heart turned away from God.

Judaism: Ingratitude characterized the Israelites in the wilderness, leading to judgment (Numbers 11:1; 14:27).

Christianity: “Although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him” (Romans 1:21)—the beginning of idolatry.

Islam: Kufr (ingratitude/disbelief) is rebellion against Allah.

Thanklessness is not trivial. It reveals pride, entitlement, and forgetfulness of God.

Gratitude Even in Hardship

All three traditions call believers to gratitude even when circumstances are difficult.

Judaism: “The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised” (Job 1:21). Blessings even upon hearing bad news.

Christianity: “Give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Paul and Silas sang in prison.

Islam: The believer thanks Allah in prosperity and trusts Him in adversity, recognizing that trials are also from Allah’s wisdom.

This is not masochism or denial. It is trust that God is good even when life is hard, that His mercies are new every morning even in the darkest night.

Modern Challenges and Questions

Gratitude vs. Toxic Positivity

Some rightly critique “toxic positivity”—the pressure to always be happy, to deny pain, to “just be grateful” when suffering. Is gratitude toxic when it minimizes legitimate suffering?

True gratitude is not denial. The Psalms model lament and gratitude together. Job thanked God yet also cried out in anguish. Jesus gave thanks at the Last Supper yet agonized in Gethsemane.

Gratitude does not erase pain but provides perspective. It acknowledges, “This is hard, but God is still good.”

Gratitude as Manipulation?

Some worry that teaching “God will bless you if you’re grateful” turns gratitude into a prosperity-gospel transaction—thanking God to get more stuff.

True gratitude is not manipulation but worship. We thank God for who He is, not to get what we want. If increased blessing follows (Quran 14:7), it’s God’s gracious response, not our earned reward.

How to Be Grateful When Depressed?

Mental illness, depression, and trauma can make gratitude feel impossible. How can one be thankful when brain chemistry makes joy inaccessible?

Faith communities should show compassion, not condemnation. Gratitude is a practice, not always a feeling. Even when emotion is absent, one can choose to say, “Thank you, God,” as an act of will and faith. Over time, the practice may shape the heart, but there is no shame when gratitude is hard.

Gratitude Without Faith?

Can secular people practice gratitude? Studies show gratitude benefits mental health regardless of religious belief.

Believers would say: All true gratitude ultimately points to God. If you thank the universe, chance, or “life,” you’re groping toward the Giver. Full gratitude recognizes the Source of all good.

Significance

Gratitude is not a trivial virtue but a transformative practice. It shapes how we see reality and how we relate to God.

Gratitude Shifts Perspective

Gratitude moves focus from what we lack to what we have, from complaints to praise, from scarcity to abundance.

The ungrateful see only what’s missing. The grateful see the countless undeserved gifts—breath, sunrise, food, relationships, redemption.

Gratitude Protects Against Idolatry

Ingratitude leads to idolatry (Romans 1:21). When we forget the Giver, we worship the gifts—making idols of wealth, pleasure, success.

Gratitude keeps God central. Every good gift points back to Him.

Gratitude Produces Joy

The Psalms link thanksgiving and joy. Gratitude is the soil in which joy grows.

Paul writes, “Rejoice always… give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16, 18). Rejoicing and thanksgiving go together.

Gratitude Deepens Relationship with God

Gratitude is personal. It acknowledges God’s specific kindnesses to us individually. This deepens intimacy with Him.

Prayer is not just petition but thanksgiving. We don’t merely ask; we remember, recount, and rejoice in what God has done.

Gratitude Witnesses to Others

A grateful believer testifies to God’s goodness. When we give thanks in hardship, others notice and wonder, “What makes them so hopeful?”

Gratitude is evangelistic. It points to a God who is worthy of thanks.

Conclusion

Gratitude is the heartbeat of worship, the proper response to God’s goodness. It is not optional niceness but commanded practice, cultivated through habit and expressed in every circumstance.

In Judaism, gratitude sanctifies daily life through blessings upon blessings, recognizing God’s hand in every moment. From waking to sleeping, from bread to rainbows, the faithful Jew blesses the LORD.

In Christianity, thanksgiving centers on the cross—“Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!” (2 Corinthians 9:15). The Eucharist (thanksgiving) commemorates Christ’s sacrifice. Believers give thanks always, in all circumstances, for God is good.

In Islam, shukr (gratitude) is essential to faith. Alhamdulillah—all praise to Allah—marks the believer’s day. Ingratitude is kufr (disbelief); gratitude is worship.

All three traditions agree: Gratitude is not conditional on circumstances. It is grounded in God’s character. Whether in plenty or in want, in joy or in sorrow, we give thanks—for He is good, His love endures forever.

The call is clear: “Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good” (Psalm 107:1). “Give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you” (Quran 14:7).

Will we live lives marked by gratitude? Will we begin each day with thanks? Will we sanctify every meal, every blessing, every breath with thanksgiving?

Or will we join the nine lepers who were healed but did not return to give thanks?

The choice is ours. But the invitation stands: Enter His gates with thanksgiving. Approach His throne with praise. Give thanks to the LORD, for He is good.

His love endures forever.